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VISH VISH 6TH MONTH PROGRESS

photo was taken on 31st Jan 10 after you taking bath.......on ur 6th month bday.......

DEAR BELOVED VISH,
HAPPY 6TH MONTH
Honey, below are 6th month milestones that u have achieved....proud of u darling...keep it up...

1. Enjoy playing peek a boo (Now you can play peek a boo by ur own...u cover your face with towel, wait a few second then take it, and laugh by urself....u will do the same thing over and over again until u get bored....)

2. Mimic sound and gesture (U have mastered in this in 5th month just that now you are getting expert)

3. Bad Tantrum/Sulking .....(Superrr tantrum boy.....mommy even can't make small mistake....)

4. Mouth Object (you just loves put anything inside your mouth...anything including mommy necklace which you love d most)

6. Over active (you always wanna play all the time .....and mummy guess you are too fatigue until u crying while sleeping...most difficult is to dress you up....take long time to settle it up...struggling here and there....)

7. 1st stage of weaning (you start eating solid food....mummy cook ur breakfast and lunch early in the morning.....mummy loves see you enjoy ur foods...you will finish all foods given...good boy...ur fav food is mashed carrot+sweet potato...you even cry ask for more)

Weight: 7 kg (increase 400g)
Length: 70 cm

With Love
Mummy & Daddy

VISH VISH & HIS SIPPY CUP

Playing with sippy cup after having lunch....if dah boring he will throw to the floor and will cry ask for it...

Even sleepy still playing with his sippy cup

Now at 6 months his new hobby is playing with sippy cup....after having meal I give him this sippy cup with plain water

VISH VISH D ORGANIC BABY

I am quite particular choosing raw materials and sources to make Vish Vish dish/meal....the main criteria are ORGANIC AND NATURAL....just bought organic raisin, carrot, brocolli and oat for him. Although price quite expensive but worth it for the sake of our baby health

Lets check out what is organic food?

Organic food is food without chemical pollution, without Genetically Modified Organism (GMO) , without chemical, fertilizer, pesticide etc or anything that harmful to human body and natural environment.

VISH VISH & BROWN RICE & PURPLE SWEET POTATO

Another new taste for Vish Vish today: brown rice + Enfalac A+ for lunch and purple sweet potato for dinner. As usuall he loves it very much...even ask for more...I have discussed about the goodness of sweet potato now lets see fact about brown rice

Why is brown rice better for baby than white?

A grain of rice is composed of several different layers. Only the outside layer, the 'hull', is removed during the production of brown rice and very little goodness is lost by the grain in the process.

But during the production of white rice, the grains are milled to remove more layers - the bran and almost all of the germ. This process strips the grains of the majority of their nutrients.

In the final part of the process, another layer called 'aleurone' is removed and the grains are polished. But aleurone is a good source of essential fats, which play such an important role in your baby's diet.

So what are you left with?

White rice - a refined starch that offers your little one very little in the way of nutrition.

Why is brown rice such a healthy choice for baby?

Just look at what it contains!

• vitamins B1, B3 and B6
• manganese (essential for healthy bones, manganese also reduces the symptoms of asthma and is a powerful, energy-providing antioxidant)
• iron
• phosphorus
• selenium
• Essential Fatty Acids

MUMMY STYLO BOY

Honey, mummy loves to see you wear shirt with collar....you look nice with it....eversince you one month old mummy let you wear all those shirt...most of the time mummy bought the one that similar with daddy....ha perfect match....

VISH VISH & SWEET POTATO

Yummy sedapnyer mummy....vish loves it...want some more....

End of this January, Vish Vish will be six months old..moment that I have waited for finally have come....times for him to consume solid food!!! Actually he has shown interest on food since 4 months old, but I decided to wait until 6 months as recommended by his paed and after reading a few article, forum etc to ensure his digestion system is ready and mature enough to digest food...

WHO recommended no solid food to introduce for the first 6 months...one of the concrete reason behind this to avoid food allergy....however it depend on baby herself....make sure he ready for solid food..there no need to rush just because others give their 3 months baby ..one of my fren in FB giving his son rice cereal mix with milk when he was 2 weeks just because her baby ask for milk every single hour... I'll introduce him solid food gradually, one by one and separate 3 to 4 day before introduce new food to ensure he do not develop food allergy and digestion problem....I was started giving him solid food when he was 5 months 3 weeks which is baby rusk as an introduction.....and yesterday my sister was cooked sweet potato for him..I mashed and mixed it with his Enfalac A+....he loves it very much and finished all...next will be banana....

Although many people choose rice grain as babies non staple food as first food but I'll go for veggies and fruits first only then rice cereal...belows food lists I have plan for Vish (6-9 months) after taking into consideration his age, nutrition and functions. I try to avoid processed and commercial food...giving him only homemade, organic and natural food...All the foods below are unlikely to cause allergic..ha play safe...I only introduce meat and fish when he 9 months and above

RECOMMENDED FOOD FOR 6-9 MONTHS BABY (design for darling Vish)

Ultimate meal: Enfalac A+

Veggies: Sweet potato, white potato, pumkin, baby carrot, brocolli, cauliflower
Fruits: Banana, Apple, Avocado, Raisin, Pear,
Grain: Brown Rice (I opt for brown instead of white because of it nutrition...talk about this when Vish start to consume it), oatmeal and barley
Other: Baby Rusk (Made from rice), Elken Spirulina

FOUND FAV BLOG ON BABY FOOD/WEANING

Vish vish is will be 6 months end of this month...oh dear its time to introduce first solid food to him...actually eversince he was 4 months he have shown interest in food....and now getting eager to grab food from us while we are eating...siap crying if we did not feed him....so far i only introduce baby rusk to him......this weekend I will start cooking for his meal...get ready dear....actually easy if we just get instant baby cereal in supermarket out there but I refused no matter how hard i will try my best to prepare healthy homecook for him....air tangan ibu lebih berkat kata orang...furthermore more hygenic....when come to cleanliness and health i will not compromise espc anything that enter my baby mouth......no play play...baby not for trial..reading in Brenda blog aboug grandma feed his grandchild halfcook boiled eggs......feed durian to 5 months baby...oh such stupid person....

It has been quite long I conduct research on baby food, recipe, food safety etc......I browse through d net (my fav site of course babycentre and wholesomefood, reading books....and today I found one complete blog on baby food and recipe including useful tips created by Brenda from Singapore title littlegastronomy...ha...very unique name.......I read through her blog without feeling bored almost for the whole day today.....overexciting...he.he......thanks so much Brenda.....although I did compile all d info but not as complete as you.......such wonderful mom....

A REVIEW OF TOUCHING STORY

Million thanks and credit to Umi Danish.....
for her entry title "DIARI SEORANG IBU".....
this morning which browsing my bloglist...
I ternampak entry yang sangat menarik hati..
really captured my heart.....apalagi I terus terjah....
membaca dengan khusyuk nya till d end....
ceritanya memang sangat menyayat dan menyentuh hati....
menitis air mata membaca kisahnya.....
kalau I di tempat ibu ini belum tentu I dapat mengharungi dengan tabah
....I sangat kagum dengan ketabahan beliau.....anak yang dikandung selama 8 bulan hanya dapat bersama kurang dari sebulan sebelum diambil semua oleh Tuhan.....
bermacam dugaan yang datang....semoga arwah Qaid
Apa yang paling penting banyak yang I pelajari dari cerita ni....
pertama bersyukur yang teramat sangat kerana dikurniakan anak yang comel, sihat dan pintar......
kedua mengajar I untuk lebih bersabar dalam membesarkan dan mendidik anak menjadi insan yang sempurna.....
.al maklum i terkenal dengan hot temper....kadang2 karenah si kecil boleh menyebabkan I panas hati...Ya Tuhan ....berikanlah ketabahan dan kesabaran kepadaku semasa menjaga anugerahMu yang paling berharga ini...
..mengingatkan ku anak hanyalah pinjaman dan amanah yang perlu dijaga sebaik mungkin...kerana Tuhan bila bila masa boleh mengambilnya....

* kiss and hug vish tightly.......darling u are my everything......

LOVELY PREZIEE FROM IBU HADIF AKA MRS.K

I letak jer kat kipas angin....sesuai gitu...

cantik kan? I suke....

This special entry specially created to remarks my thanks to Mrs. K....that day I was won Ibu Hadif Giveaway....ibu hadif macam tahu jer i suka English country style....i tak tau nak gantung kat mana...jadi i gantung kat kipas...cun sgt...thanks once again yer darling....

AGG D' SUPER HOT TEMPER

I am super hot temper kind of person.....small thing can outburst my anger like hell....hubby said I am too emotional....wonder where I inherited this behaviour.....but most people said from my dad......haha....bagaimana acuan begitulah kuihnyer...luckily my 3 siblings are excluded...they are like my mom...lemah lembut and cool person......my mom very worried when i get married because she know who I am.....he scared my hubsand can't stand with my behaviour.....one second can change me to become a lion.....How can i change? I did try to manage my anger but it seems doesn't want to go from me.....worse come to worse I will out of control.....maybe many people have dissapointed and irratated with me....espc.my beloved family...I did feel regret...but what can I do?.....but thanks God after the birth of Vish Vish I manage "cooling" myself....Guess what most of my neighbour dah bergaduh dengan I....I almost slapping my front neighbour for throwing her rubbish in my rubbish bin....I took rubbish back thrown to her carporch......I shaked my side neighbour gate and pointed finger at them for making so much noise while I sleeping.......pull my students hair for photostating my note without permission and many more....

AMUKAN DRAKULAT VISH VERSION (TANTRUM)

Reading mummy Daisy post about her daughter Rinai throwing out tantrum remind me our superhero 5 months ++++ Vish Vish....coming 6, end of this month. Tell you, don't dare taking anything that he holding, don't ever distrub while he playing, don't dare to wake him up, don't too slow making his milk...if you do what you get is....his high pitch of ......SCREAMING......CRYING...... as if can't stop.....I think most my neighbour can hear his COL and SOL almost everyday.......his tears jangan cerita mengalir macam diletak eyemo.........mengamuk tahap cipan....kecil kecil dah pandai mengamuk....if you don't cuddle him fast makin teruk he cry...... Remember one day before he celebrated his 5 months bday.....I quite slow buathis milk...he screaming as if i spank him....when I want to feed him....selamba jer dia tepis.....memalingkan muka kat tepi...only 10 minutes after that minum dengan lahapnyer....Vish Vish....

VISH VISH & BABY RUSK

I quite particular in choosing anything for vish vish to eat/drink...since i did not breastfeed him I try my best to give the best food for him......I am very concern about nutrition, ingredients, side effect....etc....what i emphasize the most of course nutrition and contents.....make sure no colouring and additive......but we can't avoid preservative for the manufacture to preserve the food.....among all rusk in retail outlets I choose this........first it made from rice...easy to digest and quite tasteless (not 100% tasteless)......compare with Milna which is quite sweet i prefer this....

I have decided the first menu for vish when he coming 6 month.....homemade brown rice porridge.....mix with carrot, brocolli and anchovies...i introduce meat later to him as advice by paed to ensure his digestion system is mature and ready enough......just wait ya baby.....actually I have bought Nestle Brown Rice cereal for vish but paed said do not give...better homemade porridge...so i paksa beri ngan my fren......

yummy so nice.....

gelojoh nyer dia....

Vish Vish will be 6 six months end of this months......in order to introduce him to solid food I firstly giving biscuit/rusk for him to bite.......better give him biscuit rather than see him bite almost anything....books...blanket...towel...etc... (16 Jan 10).....he loves this biscuit very much...sure ask for more......but he quite gelojoh...nak swallow semua one go...sampai nak tersedak...aduh aduh....everytime he see we eat something sibuk nak grab.....munching without thing inside his mouth...imitate people makan....

ONE OF MUMMY HOBBY

Part of the collection which I use the most......

I wonder any mom out there who has weird hobby like me....this is one of my weird hobby....buying detergents, handwash, etc...................as my collection....some of it never use.......everytime going to supermarket....for sure i will grab one......

CONTEST CANCELLATION

Lepas baca entry mommy zara tentang ibu2 yang mengutuk beliau dekat FB dan juga special entry kat blog dia tentang kelambatan mendapat hadiah terus I takde mood nak buat contest...lambat sikit dapat hadiah dah nak mengamuk sakan..dan juga peristiwa perempuan yang ambil gambar anak orang lain dalam contest mommy Ryan buat I jadi takut.......aduhai....jadi dengan ini I rasminya cancelkan my contest yang bertajuk SYLO BABY CONTEST....i dah delete kan entry tu....million sorry to pada yang nak join .....mommy haikal...mommy Arissa maaf ya sayang...

VISH VISH 5TH MONTHS PROGRESS

DEAR BELOVED VISH,
HAPPY 5TH MONTH

Honey, below are 5th month milestones that u have achieved....proud of u darling...keep it up...

1. Able to reach accurately for an object and grasp rattle (u will grasp anything infront of you espcially colourful objects)

2. Mimic sound and gesture (u are really master in this dear...whatever mummy & daddy do u will follow especially pull out tongue and pouting)

3. Bad Tantrum/Sulking .....(compare of previous month this month is most worse.....)

4. Separation Anxiety/More Selective (Compare with previous month this month separation anxiety also worse)

5. Sucking Toes (Actually you can did this occassionaly when you 4 months 2 weeks according to your babysitter but this months you did it almost all the time...)

6. Mouth Object (oh dear....you will put anything into your mouth and bite anything you can do.....mummy scared germ might infect you....)

6. Over active (you always wanna play all the time eventhough your eyes wanna sleep...)

Weight: 6.6 kg (increase 400g)
Length: 68 cm

With Love
Mummy & Daddy

VISH D CHEEKY BOY

oh Darling u are really cheeky boy....whenever you see cute girl (baby or teenage) you will overexcited and will react funnily....these photos was taken during ur 5th month checkup...

VISH & COMPUTER

Vish memang pantang nampak mummy on computer...sure tangan gatal nak strike the key....mummy dah tak boleh nak buat kerja kalau dia dah interfere....aduh my darling.....yang tak best nya dia punya laptop dia buat bodoh jer...nak mummy punya jugak...

BEST FOOD FOR U (CHAPTER 1)

Dear Vish,

The thing that mummy will regret for the rest of my life is for not being able to breastfeed you....mummy always blame myself for not breasfeed.....honestly mummy really jealous at other mom who can exclusively breastfee d their baby.... ......no matter how good and expensive formula mummy give to you....but still can't substitute the goodness of breastmilk...hence mummy have promise to myself to give the best for you....for the beginning mummy use only Elken RO water to make ur milk (100% pure water... contaminated free), mummy give you the best formula which is Enfalac A+ (before decided to give u this brand mummy conduct a lot of research, make comparison among all the formula brands, consult paed and found this is the best furthermore it suitable for u) mummy also start to give you Appeton Infant Drop when you 4 mths old to ensure you grow healthly...since you are never breastfeed mummy will find other alternative to enhance your immune system...and thank GOD until now you never fall sick....

VISH VISH AND MIKEALA

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REASON I COULD LIVE

VISH LAUGHTER MUMMY & DADDY BEST MEDICINE

Oh dear very difficult to capture your smile and laugh.....most of ur photos are serious......mummy need to hide camera....your smile will fade away if you saw the camera...this is some of the photos that captured your "cheecky" smile....oh loves it much...

ALWAYS BE MY BABY CONTEST

Menarik jugak contest ni yer....anjuran Puan Azfar....best sebab kena taruk gambar baby dengan mummy sekali....sesiapa nak join klik sini yer...last date ialah 10 januari 2010 so ni lah gambar yang mummy pilih....

gambar ni diambil masa dinner anjuran tempat kerja mummy Cosmopoint College cawangan sarawak.....dinner pertama yang dihadiri Vish...kitaorang yang last sampai maklum byk benda kena prepare......sampai je kat dinner tu terus kena ambil gambar...eceh mcm artis pulak rasanya....vish pun sporting sangat....cuma dia malas nak senyum...ala ala sombong gitu... sepanjang majlis takde kerja lain ambil gambar je...maklum mummy memang cameraholic....ni gambar favourite mummy coz nampak cool....

MUMMY KENA RAGUT

Today is really bad day for mummy...mummy was snatched.....while having breakfast at coffee shop...all mummy important belonging was stolen....huhu....mummy really curse him...curse him to have an accident...sorry honey to say such bad word...mummy really geram at him...he took money that that mummy just withdraw to buy ur present....huhu...mummy wanna cry.....

Luckly mummy have apply for CIMB protection plan to protect all the cards and other belonging...hence mummy can claim for loss...but honey...as daddy said when you lose 1000 you can get 10,000......tetapi kejadian ini ada hikmah sayang....daddy get his bonuses....so we can pau daddy...he.he...

OUR FUTURE/NEW HOME

Darling Vish...mummy & daddy had planned to build our new home in the near future....combination of mummy "brilliant" idea and daddy "talented" engineering skills...build with loves and passion.....now we are still looking for the best location and land to built our dream home.... but one for sure the concept and decoration (interior and exterior) must be English Cottege/country..haha mummy fav...daddy just say okay....So now we are really busy doing the survey...see the land owner, developer, contractor to get the quotation and will choose the one that interest us most....daddy said do not rushing...this is the biggest decision we ever made...compare with buying house that we are staying now....

First survey...mummy went to Borneo Highland head office to get explanation about their property and found the place very amazing but quite far from Kuching City....about one hour..very beautiful...surrounded by mountain and hills...oh mummy really loves nature...buy the land lot and the developer will built ur dream house that what they told...

roughly our plans for our new home are (but dear this is not fix will be changing from times to times...he.he..depending on situation):

5 rooms....3 upstairs 2 downstairswith attach toilet/bathroom
2 living rooms
1 watching room
1 wet kitchen 1 dry kitchen
1 dining room
1 karaoke/entertainment room
1 library/study room
swimming pool
garden full with flower especially roses..

VISH VISH 4 MONTHS 2 WEEKS (update)

Dear Vish mummy just wanna update ur 4 mths 2 weeks old....you play with ur feets/toes and ur babysitter told you can suck ur toes for a few second...but mummy haven't witness with mummy eyes....and still can't capture the moment....you getting playful and sleep late than usuall...u still wanna play even times reach 11pm and if mummy and daddy put you on bed you play by your own with your baby talk don't know what u mean...then crying out loud if mummy and daddy did not entertain you....another thing that mummy found very funny is everytime you wake up you will look at your hand and start talking...don't know what you say....ha.ha .....

AM I OVERSPOIL.....OVERSPENDING.....FOR VISH?

Ur favourite rocking chair...when mummy need to do housework mummy will put you here and turn on ur favourite nursery ryhme and you will be calm

From Watching Room this room change to your Second Room...ur 1st room have full hence part of the things is here...our plan is to renovate our downstairs and make it bigger to built ur Mini Disneyland

Mummy memang pantang pergi shopping complex habis satu pasar kena borong..oh mummy favourite brand Winnie D Pooh

This musical stuff is for mummy to teach u ABC, 123 and pratice d vocab...very complete....

Mr. Ping Bobbing...ur favourite toys...for me to strengthen ur legs...now at 4 months...u not only kick d ball but the whole body of Mr. Ping Bobbing...ganas betul anak mummy

SOME OF UR STUFFS

Many people advice do not overspoil ur baby and overspending for him...but yet mummy still.....care what they say.....every month mummy bought for you many types of toys... nice clothes...fancy decorative items...various kinds of books etc...and most of the things is not necessary and not useful...and now our house is like kindergarten...that what daddy said..full..some is still inside store room not yet open..since mummy have collected it before you were born........70% of mummy salary (daddy is tanggung everything..mummy salary is for our entertainment...... for d two of us furthermore daddy provide monthly allowance for mummy ...wakaka..loaded mummy) is for your stuffs ...ur gadgets...

almost everytime going to shopping complex mummy will buy the minimum 5 pieces of ur clothes and 1 toys....and imagine how many times mummy going there permonth? without mummy realize mummy have bought almost 20 pieces clothes permonth and at least 2 toys...mummy just close both ears when daddy nagging....for ur clothes mummy like Disney brand espc..pooh n frens, hush puppies, tenderly joy, winks,ralph lauren, unite colour of benetton ...and ur toys is mostly fisher price....mummy put aside the price and close eyes as long as mummy satisfied with it....

soon Toys R Us will be open it branch for sure we shopping sakan there....whatever it is ...whatever people says as long as we happy and do not use their money to mummy it will be okay...ha.ha...ur grandma and grandpa also give whatever mummy want in the past...consider spoil mummy....since ur grandpa working oversea...seldom come back...when he back he will buy anything mummy desire....

XMAS MOOD 09 (Vish Vish Wish)

XMAS MOOD 09 (Mummy & Vish Freak Out)

VISH TRANSFORMATION: FROM BECKHAM HAIRSTYLE TO RONALDO....

you are so happy after being shaved...ha.ha...

after finish shaving u say thanks you to the barber with ur chicky "kobek"

5 days old....oh look at ur spiky hair....

5 days old....this is mummy fav photo...u look like cartoon here...

Darling Vish you were born with brown spiky hair which you inherited from mummy....mummy adore it very much and many call u baby beckham...but when you were almost 4 months ur hair start to fall....mummy has to decide whether to bald it or not....and after having brief discussion with daddy we finally shaved it on 12th Dec 2009 (sat)....now take a look ur born hair, before u were shave and after...u look very happy dear.....mummy thought u going to cry...ha.ha..good boy...since then daddy call u "shaolin soccer"

XMAS MOOD 09 (Caroling 2009 )

Last nite a group of "carollers" came to our place for carolling nite....quite a lot of them....although Vish very sleepy but still wanna join with his babbling....wakaka.....

XMAS MOOD 09 (Charity at PIBAKAT)

This event was organized by Cosmopoint MPP...mummy last event as with the college.....wow enjoy ourselves very much....mummy joined xmas choir group to entertain the children there.....

XMAS MOOD 09 (Preparation)

Xmas 2009 will be our first celebration with you darling Vish...compare with previous years...only mummy & daddy.....this year will be more extravagant......more preparation...more present...more jolly...more hilarious.....so far mummy have decorate our living room with xmas tree and soon to deco the wall.......we haven't shop for this xmas...mummy & daddy still very busy...mummy gonna resign next week hence so many thing to settle down...daddy busy with his project....probably one week before xmas we are going to "shopping sakan"...daddy have received his bonus...two of us can "pau" him dear...ha.ha...

Normally, like previous years mummy & daddy always make open house.....we cooked curry, rendang, pansuh, satay...etc.....yummy.....this year we plan to do the same thing......but a bit difficult unless there somebody to help us....so many things to do....cooking..cleaning...decorating...and looking after you...we will see how...hopefully ur uncle and aunty will joining so they can help...

you will receive special xmas present from mummy & daddy.....wait ya sayang.........

VISH VISH SLEEPING STYLE COLLECTION

darling vish oh look at your sleeping style....this three styles are the most adorable n stylo among your sleeping style..very honest dear, mummy & daddy did not "arrange" or "plan" it just to for the purpose to take photos but it REAL ....what u did by ur own ........style that make mummy & daddy laugh and smile.......how sweet of u dear..


haha...you put ur hand on ur forehead...daddy said u are dizzy but mummy said u think about ur future....or wanna avoid sunlite........whatever it is this look cute....taken when u nearly 2 months old....one week before mummy going to work.

after tired playing with mummy & daddy you fall asleep...funny thing ur right hand raise up....u look like girl here.....taken when u 3 months 2 weeks

this two photos make mummy & daddy LOL....you fall asleep on ur rocking chair after watching humpty dumpty CD...ur left hand hold Kitty Cat holder....mummy wonder why u loves put ur hand there...taken when u 3 months 3 weeks old

darling vish oh look at your sleeping style....this three styles are the most adorable n stylo among your sleeping style......style that make mummy & daddy laugh and smile.......how sweet of u dear..

NATURE LOVER....

4 MONTHS: PULLING OUT HIS TOUNGE

Dear Vish, mummy love seeing you pulling out your tounge..look cute..unlike previous months...at the age of 4 months you can imitate mummy.....at first you will focus and observe what mummy doing then you will imitate....daddy always said mummy teach you weird things....he.he.....actually mummy just wanna test ur understanding....later mummy will teach how to blink blink ur eyes.....

4 MONTHS PROGRESS

DEAR BELOVED VISH,
HAPPY 4TH MONTH

Honey, below are 4th month milestones that u have achieved....proud of u darling...keep it up...

1. Pull out tongue.....(u will imitate mummy if u saw mummy pull out tongue...u observe and focus on what mummy doing only then u will imitate...but depending on ur mood....actually u start did this when u are 3 months old)

2. Scream out loud/with all ur heart....(u start to scream out loud last saturday 5/12/2009...really loud as compare with before...we went to Boulevard and so sudden u screamed many times...maybe u just know u can scream that loud and testing on it...ha.ha really funny)

3. Tantrum .....(maybe u inherited this from mummy that what daddy say...suka mengamuk...previous months not that bad but this month....fuh....if mummy take few minutes to prepare ur milk....mummy took off ur clothes while u busy playing with ur rattle....etc....for sure u will turn ur gear 5 engine)

4. Start to develop Separation Anxiety/More Selective (since u start to recognize people u start to develop separation anxiety/more selective.....if someone cuddle u and mummy is there at the same time u will crying with ur eyes looking at mummy...this olso happen when u are cuddle by daddy....but if u didnt see mummy then it will be ok....another funny thing is u loves to be cuddled by young female but not "old people"...u seems choosy and selective...mummy still remember when mummy aunty cum ur grandma wanna cuddled u ....before she even touch u ...u automatically crying...but when mummy cousin cuddle u, ur smile bloom...aduh kecil kecil dh memilih)

5. Lullaby (amazingly after watching ur nursery rhyme CD u will imitate the song using ur own language...mummy did record it and will upload here later....)

6. Teething (mummy not really sure actually but u show all the symptom of teething...u drooling alot and biting here and there)

7. Sit momentarily without support (in previous month u can do sitting prawn but at this month u can sit momentarily without support...mummy loves to see this...)

8. Grasping almost anything tightly (Grasping rattle toys, hair, clothes...anything that u can reach)

9. Rolls over from both direction (Mummy really scared of this...scared if u fall down from bed...)

Weight: 6.2 kg (increase 600g)
Length: 66 cm

With Love
Mummy & Daddy

4 MONTHS PROGRESS 1: IS MY BABY TEETHING????

This few days Vish Vish getting aggressive and showing tantrum...he look very uncomfortable and fussy...wake up frequently at nite screaming and biting his blanket ...biting here and there.....bite his feeding nipple..bite his toys....bite his towel and almost anything that near to his mouth....he drooling even more than when he was 3 months....and his chin olso rash....he rubbing his cheeck frequently until scratched his face....which make me really worry...

Hence i browse the net and found it is symptom of teething...but for me quite impossible and too soon for him to have his his first teeth at the age of 4 months...probably it just sign/symptom of teething occur but going to erupt/pop out later (few months later)...coz what I heard baby normally will hv their first tooth at the age of 6 to 8 months...however I did read baby can have their first tooth as early as 2 to 3 months ....and as late as 12 months...depending on baby herself....and another surprise fact to me is 1 in 2000 babies born with teeth...huhu sound scary...imagine he/she bite ur nipple....I remember my cousing galfren when she visited me when I was still in confinement period...she is a dentist..she said normally they will remove this teeth.....

we went to my cousin bday last saturday....my aunt saw Vish Vish biting here and there and olso drooling a lot...and she said probably it is symptom of teething and told that my cousin has her first tooth when he was 3 months....ha ..now I know....another cousin who is working as a nurse check Vish Vish gum...and said it quite hard and said she saw very 2 small hard white spot /cap on bottom middle gum....I never checked before because I thought it too early for him to have first teeth and maybe it just occur not erupt...

whatever it is we will see later.....

SYMPTOMS OF TEETHING

The symptoms of teething vary from child to child. Because of these different experiences, parents and physicians often disagree as to the symptoms of teething and how painful it is. The list below shows symptoms that a teething baby may experience. While most parents usually agree that some or all of the symptoms below happened around the time of teething, it is still recommended that if your baby experiences any of these symptoms you check with your pediatrician to rule out other possible causes for the symptoms.

Irritability: As the sharp little tooth rises closer to the surface your baby’s gums may become increasingly more sore and painful, leading to your baby being very fussy. The pain and discomfort is most often worse during the first teeth coming in and later when the molars come in because of their bigger size. This is most often the case since babies become accustomed to the sensations of teething and learn to live with them. But you may find your baby may be fussy during the whole time that every tooth comes in. Every child reacts differently.

Drooling: From three to four months of age you may see your baby start drooling more often than normal. Teething stimulates drooling, which is often worse with some babies than others.

Coughing: The extra saliva can cause your baby to occasionally cough or gag. This is usually nothing to worry about as long as your baby seems fine and shows no signs of a cold or flu and does not run a high fever.

Chin rash: If your baby is a big drooler, the constant contact with saliva can cause the skin around the chin and mouth to become irritated. To help prevent this, gently wipe your baby’s mouth and chin periodically throughout the day.

Biting & gnawing: A baby that is teething will gnaw and gum down on anything she or he can get their mouth around. The counter pressure from biting on something helps relieve the pressure from under the gums.

Cheek rubbing and ear pulling: Pain in the gums may travel to the ears and cheeks particularly when the back molars begin coming in. This is why you may see your baby rubbing their cheeks or pulling at their ears. However, keep in mind that pulling at an ear can also be a sign of an ear infection.

Diarrhea: While this is a symptom that is disagreed upon by physicians, researchers and parents, most parents usually notice slightly looser bowel movements when a baby is teething. While the recent study done by the Children’s Hospital in Australia found this to be the most common symptom of teething, there are still many people that will agree and disagree with this recent study. It is believed that the most likely cause of this is the extra saliva swallowed, which then loosens the stool. Be sure and report any diarrhea to your doctor that lasts more than two bowel movements.

Low-grade fever: A fever is another symptom that doctors are sometimes hesitant to directly link with teething. But there are many parents who will disagree with this and find their baby gets a slight fever while teething. The best thing to do is be extra safe and notify your doctor if a fever last more than two days.

Not sleeping well: With teething pain happening during the day and night, you may find your child wakes more often at night when the pain gets bad enough. Most parents agree that the night waking happens more often during the first set of teeth and with the molars.

Cold like symptoms (runny nose, etc.): Some parents find that their baby will show signs of having a cold. Runny noses, coughing and general cold symptoms are believed to come from the baby having their hands in their mouth more often. Play it safe and always notify your doctor if symptoms such as this occur.

How can I help my baby with the pain?

There are several things that you can try to help ease the pain of teething; some work and some don’t, but most parents agree they’re always worth a try. Teething rings, water filled and chilled rubber teething toys; mom and dads fingers can all provide counter pressure that can sometimes bring relief. Offering your baby a cold bottle of water can also help. If sucking on the bottle bothers your child, offer a cold cup of water. The water can also help replenish your baby’s fluid if they’re drooling a lot or have loose bowel movements.

Cold food has also been found to be helpful by some parents. Chilled applesauce, yogurt and pureed peaches may be more appealing to your baby and also more nutritious than a chilled teething ring.

When nothing else helps, you can also turn to the Infant Tylenol. Before giving your child Infant Tylenol (acetaminophen) always check with your doctor first. Your doctor will tell you if it’s all right and what the proper amount is to give your baby. Baby Orajel and other teething pain medicines that are applied to the gums can also provide some relief. Some parents say the Baby Orajel type products work great, while other parents will say it doesn’t. Also check with your doctor before giving this type of over the counter pain reliever to your baby.

The teething process will come and go just like so many other things with new babies. Keep trying different things until you find what provides the best relief for your child.

Note: Before trying any of the suggestions listed above or any other type of home remedy it is highly recommended that you contact your pediatrician first. You should follow your pediatricians advise first before trying anything mentioned on this site or on any other site. Your child's doctor knows what is best for your child.

.SOURCE:http://www.thenewparentsguide.com/baby-teething.htm

SERIUS BABY 2009 GIVEAWAY

SERIUS BABY 2009 GIVEAWAY
Due Date: Before 31st December 2009

Bersempena dengan birthday Ibu Rifqi yang ke 29 beliau telah menganjurkan contest Serius Baby 2009 Giveaway.....memandangkan Vish Vish paling suka buat muka serius so i joinlah contest ni....i letak 7 gambar semuanya...puan penganjur pilihlah mana yang berkenan...

TRAVISSH ALDRICH TANGAI @ VISH VISH
DILAHIRKAN 31 JULAI 2009
UMUR 4 BULAN

VOUGE PREGNANT MUMMY GIVEAWAY

VOUGE PREGNANT MUMMY GIVEAWAY
18 NOVEMBER - 4 DISEMBER 2009

Last minute join ni...sempat lagi kot...Inilah contest yang i nanti nantikan bukan apa masa mengandung nilah i dapat banyak keistimewaan dapat perhatian dari semua....bag berat ada orang angkat...nak makan apa ada orang cari....nak baju apa hubby beli...nak jalan mana hubby hantar...aduh bestnya...tambahan mengandung sulung pula tu.....ingat balik rasa nak turn back d clock.....Contest ni dianjurkan oleh Notti Netti bersempena dengan Wedding Anniversary beliau yang ke LIMA.......I doakan perkahwinan beliau dan suami kekal selama lamanya....bahagia ke anak cucu....bersama hingga akhir hayat.....Cerita I ni agak panjang sikit ye....harap2 puan penganjur tak bosan baca...bukan apa pengelaman pregnant n bersalin ni merupakan pengelaman yang tersangat istimewa banyak sangat memori dan kenangan indah dan terselit juga kisah duka.......ceritanya I bahagikan kepada dua bahagian pengelaman mengandung, pengelaman bersalin tapi dalam version English sebab ni i copy paste dari my previous post....agak payah nak translate..... he.....he....tapi sebelum tu cerita sikit pasal gambar di atas ye...gambar ni diambil masa dinner Prom Nite Cosmopoint...masa tu i pregnant 8 months.....best sangat masa ni semua orang nak usap perut i...baby Vish kat dalam tu apalagi tendanglah dia...oh i wish can turn back d clock.

MY AMAZING JOURNEY OF PREGNANCY

For almost four years we have gone through all sweet and sour of life...finally December 2009 we are bless with the most precious gift from God....little one that we have waiting for......no words....no expression...can describe my joy....my excitement.....only God knows.....we are going to be a parent soon...It is true people said " God give you child when you are ready" Our little one "come" at the right time....after I get a job and I am ready enough to hold a big responsibility as a mother...

Nine Amazing Months........
Fourty Wonderful Weeks.....
Three Miraculous Trimester......

The miraculous world inside the womb. Being pregnant is a joyous occassion and my most unforgetable moment in life. All moms in the world will feel the same (of course not for unexpected pregnancy). Nine months bearing my little Travissh is full of great memories.........it still fresh in my mind how he kicked, punched and swimed in my womb....honestly I miss all those memories... I talked and communicated with him each day each night....strong relationship that we had built after he being concieved such a miracle.....There nothing can separate us apart......flowing in his blood ...his vein....is my breathe.

Before I get pregnant I always hear people talk about ....morning sickness.....sleepless, tiredness....backpain.... labour pain.....complication and all the "horror" story behind pregnancy and childbirth....I admit it does bring impact in my heart and mind....But everything change when I found that I am pregnant....I forget all the fear because of LOVE...JOY...bring my little one to the world....Darling Travissh, mommy don't mind to gone through all the hardship bearing you for nine months....mommy don't mind to scarifice my career to look after you....mommy don't mind not get enough sleep preparing your milk....changing your diapers...because you are the most precious and priceless gift from God.

First Trimester (Month One, Two, Three)
Flash back.......two weeks after attended my convocation, I had a bad flu, fever and cough. At first, I thought it was an ordinary sickness...but when it not recovered for two weeks although I did take medicine and consult a doctor, I felt weird...was something goes wrong to my body. Normally , I will recover from fever for a few days after taking medicine. It never come accross in my mind that it was the sign of pregnancy although my period was late.....Suddenly, one day (18 December) , I felt I wanted to try pregnancy test kit....who know.... I said to myself.....I asked my hubby to buy from pharmacy nearby our place. It showed positive result.....I am so happy, excited and tears of joy flow out......but it was undeniable....I do feel scared and blured....Am I ready enough physically and physiologically to be a mother? My hubby hugged and kissed me.....I know deep inside her heart...he can't wait to see our little one....He loves baby more than I do.....

I couldn't really slept for the whole nite...I think so many things......can I become a good mother? How he going to look like? who are going to look after him when he born? The next day I informed news of my pregnancy to all my collagues. Since that I received best and special treatment from them. I was treated like a queen....you are so lucky baby everybody love and adore you even before you are born....special thanks to Mama Ling2, Aunty Liew, Ummie Siti, mummy Carol..

Finally i have recovered....no more flu...fever and cough....week 7 (23 December 2008) I went for my first checkup.......normal procedure they measure my weight, height, took my blood, urine test and so on...among all I still remember how pale I was when nurse took my blood..i still can feel the needle and how it "sucked" my blood....baby still unpaipable....

I am consider myself very lucky I didn't experience any bad morning sickness and nausea like other preggies...just minor nausea but consider ok...my apetite also ok just that I hate the smell of chicken.....hence, for the whole first trimester my hubby and I didn't eat chicken...I bought Anmum Materna and took food supplement like Elken Spirulina, Elken Dr. Xeniji, Vitamin A, B complex, C, folic acid and iron...I really particular about what I eat as well to ensure my baby get enough nutrients. ...I eat a lot of vegetables and fruits....my favourite food during first trimester was corncup and fish (any kind of fish especially ikan kembung)

Second Trimester (Fourth, Fifth and Sixth Months)

Time flies very fast....I never miss my monthly checkup and as usually Travissh loyal dad will accompany us......Mummy get first and second tetanus injection at second trimester......no more fear....hehe....I also gain weight and baby growing very fast at this stage.....really can't wait to feel his first quickening.....

One of the most magical, memorable and exciting moment for pregnant woman in second trimester is feeling the baby move for the first time referred as "quickening." Although baby has been wriggling around since ninth week but he or she has been too small for mom to feel. Week 20 for the first time ever, while I was lying down....I felt his first kicks......Feeling those flutters, hiccups and kicks is an amazing and personal moment. Moment I will (for sure) remember for the rest of my life...

All my baby stuffs has been ready during month 4....takut deliver awal...he.he...

Rezeki my little baby I received very good news from UiTM shah Alam informing I get the scholarship doing my Masters.....tak sia sia mummy n baby interview kat shah alam dulu...praise the Lord.

Third Trimester (Month Seven, Eight and Nine)

I still active as usual....just a little bit fatique and getting feel not so comfortable.....especially at nite...hardly get enough sleep......getting impatience to cuddle my little one....

Month seven we went for baby scanning at Kuching Specialist. Thanks God everything ok and he was predicted boy.....of course the most happiest person in the world is dad to be...ada geng watching football match...playing futsal and golf...


Craving
Like other preggies I olso craving......I love corncup....almost everyday after back from work we stop by at BDC to buy corncup...another thing that I crave for is durian mentah...dahlah time tu bukan durian season...kempunan i tak dpt mkn...

Healthy Eating
During pregnant I will ensure I eat healthy food. I terpaksa tahan diri tak makan sangat junk food. I took food supplement. Really thankful my baby is healthy.......special thanks to Dr. Zeniji formula (although price very expensive but worth it) to prevent jaundice. I also drink a lot of plain water, Ribena and Anmum. Drink lots of water because loss of it can result in urinal tract infection, dehydration, water retention, constipation etc. I also make myself fresh juices and fruits. According to research to prevent leg swollen makesure pregnant woman drink a lot of water....

Feel Happy
Pregnancy is the rite time to focus on yourself. Don't worry about the 'extra kilos' that you've put on. You look beautiful because women have special gift of connection herself to the unborn physically and psychologically, that's why it is an old saying that whatever a women goes through during pregnancy, the baby gets affected. Thats very true because happy mum for happy baby...

Tips for the would be dad

Just want to share with all the dad to be out there some tips that I found on the Net and also based on my on experience to create strong bond between them with the baby.....the relationship should be built from the beginning...We all know, it's not only the women who experiencing the little bundle of joy, but the would be dad can contribute in the development of the new one. His dream grows with his baby. it is true...really true.....I can see how excited my hubby during my pregnancy.......he always accompany me during my monthly checkup......giving me support and encouragement when I need.....make me a drink...ensured I take enough vitamin....

The father to be can contribute by keeping the homely atmosphere, pleasant, taking care of the medicines, and etc. My hubby really helpful during my pregnancy...he help to clean the house, washing clothes, massage me every nite except for cooking he.he..in fact he don't know how to cook...but he still helped me in the kitchen.

He should be on his toes to quench the thirst of would be mom. He should provide her everything that she craves for to have a healthy baby. Thanks God my hubby really worked hard during my pregnancy...he tried his best to full fill my wish...anything I want to eat he ensured to get for me.

He can even talk to the baby, tell the baby stories, sing lullaby for the abay and spending quality time with the pregnant wife....according to research the moment baby arrives, he/she will immediately recognize his/her father, his voice and will connect to him in no time...Hence almost every nite before we go to bed my hubby will read a bed time story and talked with our little one...at the same time he feel his movement....what i realize is whenever his daddy miss to touch him at nite (due to busy schedule) baby travissh will move alot....

Baby stuffs
Month 4 all my baby stuffs was ready...baby cot...mosquito net...clothes....cupboard...etc...takut deliver awal tak sempat prepare.....don't know why brand walt disney Winnie the Pooh become my choice...if possible all his stuffs pakai brand ni....but difficult to find....price i tak tengok sangat janji puas hati...

DELIVERY ....DETIK DETIK CEMAS

This moment will become the most unforgetable one.................hopefully when little Travissh grow up he will appreciate mummy scarifice bringing him to the world........

30th July 2009

I couldn't sleep the whole nite...although my fever has been recovered but coughing getting worse.......2.00a.m. i found that i was bleeding...i asked hubby to woke up....we rushing to SGH....2.30a.m. we arrived at SGH and immediately register at Labour Ward.....But i didn't feel any contraction yet....CTG scan was conducted to monitor baby heartbeat......doctor came to check V.....not yet open....I was given water drip......4.00a.m. I was sent to Room 9 to be isolated...guess what....aku kena suspected ada AH1N1....blood sample taken to be tested at Kota Kinabalu Sabah....Every 2 hours CTG scan will be conducted......I felt so bored....I switched on TV to reduce my unease feeling. Minta minta semua selamat...I talked to little Travissh asked him to be strong.....

31st July 2009

9.00a.m. I start to feel mild contraction...its on and off.....Doctor came check V....open 1cm....still 9cm to go......I just relaxing myself watching TV...as usuall CTG scan will always conducted.....hubby and other family member not allowed to see me.....2.30p.m. I start to feel frequent contraction....once in every 30 minutes.....open 4cm.......then once in every 10 minutes....4.00 pm. open 7cm...doctor broke the water.......I was asked to poo poo and shee shee and not allowed to take any foods or drinks.....but since i felt really thirsty I begged nurse to give me some water...probably she felt sympatize she gave to me...

5.20p.m. I could stand.........contraction getting painful...I took deep breathe to reduce pain....timbul keinsafan yang teramat sangat dalam diri...beginilah my mum bertarung nyawa melahirkan aku ke dunia...oh syurga di bawah tapak kaki ibu.....tears came out......I called nurse...felt wanna push...its 10cm....kelam kabut nurse call the doctors and another one nurse to assist her........she kept advise me to stay calm and do not push...while she prepared all the stuff...

They asked me to take a deep breathe and push...but I feel very weak...I was stop for a while...funny thing sempat lagi menjeling TV....tengok iklan aiscream mangga....magine I didn't take much food the whole day just water and a bit of porridge .....probably i didn't feel hungry because of water drip....then I try to push again....Travissh head can be seen....push again his shoulder and finally our little superhero was born.....doctor showed his bird to me to confirm he is a boy.....his weight and height was measured and I was asked to cuddle him for while....comelnya baby mummy putih macam salji....then he immediately taken to nursery...he can't be with me until result of AH1N1 come out.....sedih tidak terkira...if other mother are able with their little one I am alone.....

Episitomy repair.............I am grinning menahan sakit....nurse giving support...pain killer memang takde kesan langsung......3rd degree tears....teruknya koyak.....doctor who did the stitches buat de je tengok aku menahan sakit....finally around 6p.m. something.....everything done......lega......penat tidak terkira but puas hati sangat....keep thinking about Travissh......but due to fatique i managed to sleep well the whole nite....

1st August 2009
I still isolated at Room 9.....antibiotic drip was given.....my body temperature also being measured.....at 10.00 am I was sent for Xray.......Whenever nurse came and see me I will asked about the condition of my baby....thanks God he is in good health.....well done son...aduh bila lah aku boleh balik.....tension macam dalam jail dalam bilik ni....

2nd August 2009
Good news.....result came from Kota Kinabalu...I was negative AH1N1...yea boleh balik....I was discharged at 5.00pm after undergone a few checkup....blood pressure.....body temperature...so on.....MERDEKA....finally I can be with little Travissh....

CAMERAHOLIC & PHOTOHOLIC MUMMY

These photos was taken by Graphic Design Lecturer, Vish godmother, Mama Ling....nothing to do at the office hence we just play with the camera....apa lagi..I memang pantang tengok camera mesti nak pose....sampai my hubby selalu complain i memang terlebih lebih....huhu....bukan pandai pose pun tapi mengatal juga nak buat...hentamlah labu janji puas hati...he.he..untuk nak dapatkan natural look i tak pakai makeup just lipstic je supaya tak pucat....

Ibu Hadif’s Giveaway ~ Anugerah Terindah

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Ibu Hadif’s Giveaway ~ Anugerah Terindah
24 November hingga 18 Disember 2009 @ 1 a.m.
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Ibu Hadif


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Anak tercinta...buah hati mummy & daddy
Travissh Aldrich Tangai @ Vish Vish 4 Bulan
Dilahirkan pada 31 Julai 2009
Anak sulung Encik Tangai dan Puan Agnes
Cucu sulung bagi kedua belah pihak

Perasaan & Harapan

Sekiranya aku di tanya apakah perasaan apabila pertama kali melihat Vish Vish....aku akan terdiam sejenak...tak mampu nak menutur kata secara spontan.....kerana tiada bahasa, ayat, mahupun perkataan untuk menyatakan perasaan tersebut...terlalu halus untuk di fahami terlalu indah untuk diungkapi...bayangkan hampir empat tahun menanti tangisan dan derai tawa seorang anak.....tapi yang pasti mummy..... "GEMBIRA TIDAK TERKIRA" (menerima kehadiran orang baru dalam keluarga bakal penyambung generasi mummy & daddy), "TERUJA TIDAK TERHINGGA",(Keinginan menjadi ibu dimakbulkan Tuhan dan aku berjanji akan mendidik anak ini menjadi insan berguna, mencorakan kain putih menjadi warna warni, menyayangi dia sepenuh hati) "LEGA TIDAK TERKATA" (melahirkan anak dengan selamat tanpa komplikasi), BERSYUKUR TERAMAT SANGAT KEPADA TUHAN KERANA MENGURNIAKAN HADIAH YANG TERMAHAL ANTARA YANG MAHAL, TERISTIMEWA ANTARA YANG ISTIMEWA, TERINDAH ANTARA YANG INDAH, TERBAIK ANTARA YANG BAIK, TERHEBAT ANTARA YANG HEBAT (fuh terlebeh sudah) .... TERIMA KASIH YA TUHAN...TIADA YANG LEBIH SEMPURNA DARI CIPTAAN MU YANG INI......semua kesakitan hilang bak embun pagi tersejat oleh mentari pagi saat melihat wajah bayi yang baru dilahirkan...bersih, indah, sempurna, elok paras rupa,....hampir tidak percaya aku sudah menjadi seorang ibu....berjaya melahirkan zuriat pengikat kasih mummy & daddy...jika kebanyakan ibu menitiskan air mata selepas menatap wajah anak tercinta sejurus selepas dilahirkan...berlainan dengan diriku...air mata pun tak mampu menitis begitu juga satu patah perkataan tak mampu terkeluar dari bibir...TERGAMAM..HAYAL..MENGHAYATI CIPTAAN TUHAN YANG SATU INI...AMAT SEMPURNA.....jikalau saat mengandung penuh dengan kemanisan dan keindahan saat melahirkan pula penuh dengan dugaan dan cabaran yang sudah tentunya akan menjadi kenangan yang tak akan dilupakan seumur hidup...aku was suspected menghidapi AH1N1 semasa hendak melahirkan Vish Vish kerana demam dan selesema...di kurung dan di asingkan di bilik seorang diri menanggung kesakitan tanpa suami disisi ...membayangkan saat saat ngeri yang bakal berlaku...bukan proses melahirkan yang aku takutkan tetapi sekiranya aku memang sah menghidapi AH1N1 dan hidupku ditakdirkan tidak panjang untuk menjaga anakku apakah yang akan terjadi kepadanya?.....bayang detik detik cemas melahirkan dengan mulut ditutup dengan mask..mencari sisa sisa nafas untuk meneran....cuma dapat mendakap anak tercinta selama beberapa minit sebelum dipisahkan....tiga hari dilalui penuh penyeksaan kerana tidak dapat mendampingi anak seperti ibu ibu yang lain...tidak dibenarkan berjumpa apatah lagi menyusui....aduhai hanya Tuhan yang tahu perasaan mummy saat itu.... Seperti ibu bapa yang lain sebagai orang tua kami pun menaruh harapan yang tinggi terhadap Vish Vish, Besar harapan mummy & daddy apabila Vish besar nanti...

• menjadi insan yang berguna kepada bangsa, agama dan negara
• menjadi anak yang hormat, taat, dan mengenang jasa orang tua
• menjadi pelajar yang pintar dan cemerlang sama ada dari akademik dan kokurikulum
• menjadi seorang pekerja yang komited, rajin, dedikasi, telus dalam menjalankan tugas...walau apa pun pekerjaan dan karier yang Vish Vish ceburi mummy dan daddy tetap akan menyokong
• menjadi suami yang penyayang, memahami, setia dan mampu membimbing isteri ke jalan yang benar
• menjadi ayah yang bertanggungjawab, pengasih dan mampu mendidik anak dengan sempurna
  

VISH VISH SAVING, EDUCATION & HEALTH PLAN

Education, saving and health plan is a great important for every parent to consider for their little one (mummy stephanie liah have brought this topic in her blog as well) ...as compare with our parent in the past they do not expose much but today's we have so many choice......do not let ur little one unprotected and destroy their dream just because u are unable to give them best treatment when they are ill and can't afford to send them to good school and university....Every parent wanna the best for their love one....As little Vish is our first child and it take us quite long to do research on the best saving, education and health plan for him...we don't want to regret in the future hence we did extensive research to ensure the plan is best for us.....

Darling Vish,
Mummy & daddy love u very much....after have brief discussion, conducted extensive research, considered here and there...here is ur education, savings and health plan.....


SAVING PLAN (under mummy account and will be transfered when u reach 12 years old to get ur own under Teenage Account)

• ASB (Amanah Saham Bumiputera) for u so that every year u will get at least 10% interest.....this is beneficial as compare with saving money in commercial bank saving account (no interest and if any olso not much) or fixed deposit (low interest and insecure).
  

EDUCATION/HEALTH PLAN
Mummy and daddy hopefully u will further ur study as high as possible in the future.....mummy hope u can become a doctor (gyn, paed, sur, den..etc...) the reason is so that u can contribute to our society and treat mummy & daddy when we are old....however daddy hope u can become an architect or civil engineer just like him so that u can built great building, road etc.....but darling it just our hope...all is depend to u....no matter what field u are interested with mummy & daddy never give up to support and encourage u.......when u are 15 months mummy will enrolled u at Smart Reader Junior.....3 years at Smart Reader Kids and 5 years at Lodge Kindergarten and primary one to form 5 at Lodge International School....university? since mummy can't further study at oversea (huhu mummy chosed to do master at local university becoz don't want to leave u and ur daddy) perhaps for mummy PhD we can go oversea....if daddy agree).......hence mummy hope u can go abroad.......

We have planned to prepare 3 education plan for u....one is ASD, SSPN and one from commercial insurance agent (so far prudential is in our mind)......

• ASD (Amanah Saham Didik under Akaun Bijak)...this is similar with ASB but focus on education....but get less interest as compare to ASB....approximately around 6 to 7% per year.....
  
• SSPN (National Education Saving Scheme)....this education plan we take to get income tax deduction/relief (RM 3000 per year).......and the best thing about this plan is depositor will get free insurance RM 50,000 who have accumulated deposit of minimum RM 1000......
• Prudential Education Insurance + Medic Card....very interesting 2 in one......in case if holder admitted to hospital medic card will pay for the expenses not more than RM 50,000 per year....mummy n daddy olso go for medic card...

The thing that i will regret for the rest of my life is we are unable to save his blood cord (stem life) just because Sarawak General Hospital, the place that i delivered do not allow this procedure...huhu...so sad....actually if not because of my fever n cough (suspected H1N1) i will not deliver there)...I plan to deliver at Kuching Specialist...not only the service is good but i can get his blood cord...but never mind can try for my second baby in the future...what is stem life bank about.... if u wanna know further just browse thru d net.....

YOU DIDN'T KNOW BECOMING A PARENT MEANT

I found this very interesting....I laugh out loud when i read this.....babycenter sent to my email... source: www.babycenter.com....

You didn't know becoming a parent meant...

• Stacking today's unread newspaper on top of yesterday's unread newspaper.

• Eating dinner like we're trying to break a world record for the most pasta swallowed in the shortest amount of time. Standing up. (Really funny...but honestly this is what I did when my hubby can't comfort him if he wanna sleep)

• Letting your partner choose between poop and laundry as a topic of conversation.

• Figuring out how to pee without putting the baby down. (happen when he a bit in manja mood..if i put down sure COL...occasionally...but easy to let him down just let him play with his rattle toy which we name ping bobbing..not matter how tired and drowsy he is...he manage to kick the ball hard and grasp the object...)

• Wearing a bra that looks like something from a 1930s catalog. ( I wonder how it look like...imagine....)

• Spending three hours getting the baby to sleep and then waking her up two minutes later to make sure she's still breathing. (Real true......it need 15-20 minutes to put him to sleep even sometimes up to 30 minutes.....pat, bang, here and there only then he will fall asleep (especially in our watching and living room)...but amazingly when at shopping complex, party, office or any place that crowded he manage to sleep without much problem....another best place is mummy & daddy bedroom....switch on aircond...just lying him down....less than few minutes fall asleep..)

• Forgetting what you were...

Anyway having a baby is a million joy............I enjoy being a mother although sometimes geram yg teramat sangat rasa nak gigit if he COL....

HEARTIEST CONGRATULATIONS

Heartiest congratulations to my neighbour aka my friends Daddy Jeffry and Mummy Kani on the birth of their cute baby girl Myra Xandrea....soon will be Vish Vish buddy aka girlfriend...he.he...love u two darling

MUMMY AFTER CHILDBIRTH

Last time i always heard many women being scared of having baby because of overweight after childbirth, no time to manage themselves from top to toe, shapeless body...etc....and I have watched movie (Indonesian movie) whereby the wife willing to ask the husband to marry other woman if he want to have child in order to keep his body beautiful n slim....and i ever read in Majalah Mingguan Wanita of how a husband willing to abort his own flesh n blood by pushed his wife at the staircase........for me they are STUPID ....FOOL (sorry to say ya)......Although i really concern about my bodyshape after childbirth but having child is more important than other..feel even more beautiful and sexier after gave birth to my boy (cewah perasan lak).....happiest moment in my life is being a mother.....no word can describe this......even i received Best Student Award, Vice Chancellor Award and Dean Award every semester during my university time also not as happy as this......all those award is forgatten after I get a job but my experience bearing honey baby boy for 9 months and gave birth to him is priceless and will never forget forever....honestly...

Although I have a few roles to play (mom, student, lecturer, wife at one time) but i manage to do it well. yes 24 hours is never enough...imagine wake up at 6 sometimes 5.30 to prepare breakfast, 7.00 send vish2 to babysitter, 8.30 to 5 working as lecturer, 6 fetched vish vish, 6.30 cooking, 7.30 washing, cleaning etc, 8.30 take bath, 9-11 playing, singing, reading etc with vish vish.......but I still have time to pamper myself (curi2 masa)...every women wanna look beautiful...(remember beauty is in the eyes of beholder) both external and internal...but it require u to have extra effort....u must know how to take care of urself...

VISH VISH SOCIAL TIME

Aunty Ling Chai & Vish Vish

Aunty Jency & Vish Vish

Aunty Tracy & Vish Vish

Darling Vish so tired after being cuddled and passed around here and there

Mummy Carol, Daddy Robert & Vish Vish...they are madly in love with Vish...sampai nak dibawa lari...oh tidak

Mummy & Vish Vish...

Mama Ling & Vish Vish...mama ling adore him so much...his "adopted" mama

Umi Siti & Vish Vish

Daddy, Mummy & Vish Vish

Daddy, Mummy & Vish Vish

Last Friday nite (14 November 2009) we were having our great party at Crowne Square (Cosmopoint Nite) organized by our College MPP.....mummy & daddy bring Little Vish Vish along....the minute we arrived at the main door everybody paid attention at Vish......snap here snap there......cuddled and passed around here and there until mummy don't know where Vish Vish is....mcm artis pulak...(waduh perasan)......mummy guess Vish Vish must be really tired....

The next day, mummy also brought Vish Vish to college...Vish Vish baby sitter went to Santubong....definitely Vish Vish is familiar with the surrounding here...for 9 months in mummy womb Vish Vish has been here...listen to all the student noise....again Vish Vish also cuddled and passed around...mummy can goyang kaki surf the internet...keh keh...so many babysitters...

VISH IN STRAWBERRY & PEA COSTUME

Actually this is superimpose photos using Adobe Photoshop created by Mama Ling, Vish Professional Photo Editor..she simply put vish face on this costume....I wish i can buy this costume for little Vish...but only available at US... Among all baby clothes I madly in love with baby romper and costume...wish to make it as collection....

VISH VISH PLAY TIME

Shall we start mummy?

Hohohohohoo cah

Wawawawawa maaaaaaaaaah

Babababa cak.....

Mummy, daddy and Vish playing together....... it is part of our routine activities besides massage, study and discussion time.....u really loves playing especially if we tease u but will screaming if u feel fedup or bored......thats mommy boy.....active n healthy.....chayooook darling... mommy n daddy has plan to make mini Disneyland at our home so that u can play safely and happily at our own home...fill with all ur fav toys, books, playgym and so on...however firstly have to do renovation, painting (blue colour...calming n relaxing) and decorating (all disney character espc...Pooh n friends).....we will name it Vish Mini Disneyland...this is to show our love to u.....mummy never hesistate to spend most of mummy salary to buy ur toys, books, clothes,diapers, formula etc...mummy don't have the intention to spoil u dear but just want u to know MUMMY WANNA THE BEST FOR U....hopefully u understand and appreciate it dear......

COL, LOL, BATS & HOLDS THINGS,

ROLLS OVER AND KICKS

BLOWS BUBBLE, PRAWN SITTING, SUCKS FINGERS

VISH VISH 3 MONTHS PROGRESS

DEAR BELOVED VISH,
HAPPY 3RD MONTH

Honey, below are 3rd month milestones that u have achieved....proud of u darling...keep it up...

1. Blows bubble
2. "Prawn" sitting
3. Sucks fingers
4. Holds head steadily
5. Rolls over from back to front and vice versa
6. Kicks very hard
7. Raised legs higher
8. LOL and COL with all heart
9. Response when name is call
10. Brings hand together and bats at toys
11. Holds things

Weight: 5.6 kg (increase 700g)
Length: 63 cm

With Love
Mummy & Daddy

MY FUNNIEST BABY CONTEST FROM UMIDANISH

Tajuk : MY FUNNIEST BABY CONTEST

BerMula :
20 Oktober hingga 13 November 2009 (12.00 tengahari)
Berumur :
1 bulan hingga 3 tahun
Kategori A :
baby gurl
Kategori B :
baby boy

Hadiah :
-1 Cloth Diaper Lunatots bagi setiap kategori
Sponser dari Babyumishop

- 1 helai baju baby bagi setiap kategori
Sponser dari IT @ RLiiT'S BoUTique & BeauTY CeNtRe


Hadiah PiliHan unTuk Peserta Bertuah
- 1 Diaper Stacker

Sponsor dari Moms&babyshop


Syarat Penyertaan:

- Jadi Follower Umidanish dan sponsor2 serta add Umidanish dalam bloglist anda (DONE)
- Letak banner di sidebar blog anda dengan link ke entri ini (DONE)
- Membuat entri mengenai contest ini diblog anda (DONE)
- Dalam entri itu, upload satu (1) gambar si comel anda dengan aksi Funny yang paling menarik hati para juri. Sila nyatakan nama si comel dan umurnya. Sila juga nyatakan apa yang terdapat di semua blog sponsor umidanish. (DONE)
- Dalam entri tersebut pastikan anda mention dan link ke Umidanish dan semua sponsor (no link back will be disqualified)(DONE)

Sponser 1 :

Babyumishop

(http://www.babyumishop.blogspot.com/)

Sponser 2 :

IT@RLiiT's BoUTique & BeauTY CeNtRe (http://www.hidupharmoni.blogspot.com/)

Sponser 3 :

Moms&babyshop

(http://www.momsandbabyshop.blogspot.com/)

- Bila dah siap, tinggalkan link entri anda di entri ini. (DONE)
- Hanya satu sahaja pemenang bagi setiap kategori, jadi pastikan anda meletakkan satu gambar baby anda yang memiliki aksi lucu paling cutes.
- Semua penyertaan akan diadili oleh parajuri yang akan dilantik oleh umidanish sendiri.

Hadiah pilihan untuk peserta bertuah akan dicabut oleh baby danish sendiri.. Hadiah ini untuk selain pemenang kategori A dan B.
Selamat Bercontest..

INILAH PESERTA DIA
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Nama Baby:
Travissh Aldrich Tangai @ Vish Vish

Umur Baby:
3 Bulan

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MUMMY AND VISH VISH LOOK ALIKE

Do mummy and Vish2 look alike?
Many people said when son look like mummy or daughter look like daddy it will be "cool" is that right? Me myself olso not sure about this...but hopefully it is true...amen...

VISH VISH FUTURE WIFE AKA MY FUTURE DIL

Dear Vish Vish, although u only 2 months plus but mummy have find future wife for u....very beautiful pretty sexy adorable cute sweet little cutie pie....has very fair skin....brown hair.....pointed nose....he.he...so here she is dear

LITTLE MIKEALA MEGAN NACHA
BORN ON SEPTEMBER 11, 2009

VISH VISH TUMMY TIME (3)

LEARN HOLDING HIS OWN BOTTLE

Huh mummy so bad rite darling Vish....teach u to hold ur own bottle....how can u hold it by ur own...u are only 2 months plus.....don't get mummy wrong dear not that don't want to hold for u...but train u to be more independent....actually this is for fun only....wait until u can hold thing steadily then mummy will train u agai.....love u much darling Vish..

VISH VISH SEXY POSE.....

Muka poyo vish vish...he.he....

DIET THERAPHY FOR INFANTS by Young Yin

Today, after finished my class, my colleagues and I went to one of the most famous shopping complex at Kuching (Boulveard). I decided to find some books to "top up" our books collection at home...every month we must buy at least 2 to 3 books for ourselves and also for Vish Vish.....our mission is to complete our mini library end of 2010....besides that this is one way to reduce our income tax (for ur info income tax tak suka tengok org senang sikit...mesti nak kejar....) back to the story.....after having lunch we walked around....first place of course baby department (aku memang tak boleh tengok baju baby confirm grab ...sampai my hubby membebel apahal beli sampai 4-5 helai...dah rambang mata) and finally we stopped by at Popular book store....heard my friend Liew calling....she showed me a book that captured my eyes and heart...here is the book DIET THERAPHY FOR INFANTS by Young Yin i flipped through and without thinking i just grabbed it. (perangai paling teruk aku beli brg tanpa berfikir asal puas...mana hubby tak pening..nanti minta extra monthly allowance....keh...keh...)

Since my Vish Vish will be 4 months old another one month (end of November) I plan to start giving him solid food at 4 months...it adviseable that formula feed baby can start taking solid food at the age of 4 months but breast feed should start at 6 months...however it depend on the mum and baby themselves...but make sure u get advise from Pead... my plan is to cook for his meal (homemade)..if possible i will not giving him any processed food (kalau dptlah elakkanlah......i'll try my best dear....utk menebus mummy tak breastfeed...tersgt sedih....).........make home made juice for him...I can't wait for him to taste my own "air tangan".......my hubby and I decided to buy brown rice as main course....then complement with dishes such as fish, meat and vegetable...

Back to this book....I haven't read the whole content yet but roughly i just browsed through this book especially on menu and nutrition...honestly I highly recommend this book for all mum and dad...very complete...the best thing it give diet theraphy tips for baby that have ailments such a flu, fever, runny nose...etc...sound good is it

p/s : Mummy Christina did asked me is there any recipe for infant in Dr. Tan book....NO...she only giving info on nutrition fact...she focus on baby care and health...this book is focus on nutrition and recipe....check it out dear...u won't regret...

DIET THERAPHY FOR INFANTS
RM 26.00 (very affordable and worth it)
AUTHOR: YOUNG YIN

An infant's behaviour is malleable during the growth period, you'll need to seize the opportunity during this crucial phase. Use natural ingredients to cook for your baby and choose light and healthy ingredients as much as you can. This book is to encourage and assist all families with young infants to inculcate correct eating habits during the early stages of their lives, so as to reap lifelong benefits.

BABY HANDBOOK

BABY HANDBOOK
RM 45.00 (very affordable)
Caring for your Child's Health from Day One
Author: Dr Tan Poh Tin, Pead at Tan Children and Family Clinic
No 2, Lot 7879, Green Height, Airport Road
Tel: 082-572020

If you are looking for a concise reference book with evidence based, up to date and reliable answers to your medical concern, this book is for you. A child is not like a little adult. Young children cannot tell you what is wrong with them. in infant even the simplest illness can become rapidly or irreversibly life threatening if treatment is delayed or inappropriately administered. with this handbook, new parents can quickly learn to recognize the medical conditions that commonly affect children and know when to see a doctor about it.

I strongly recommend this book to all parents especially new mom and dad...it is complete book contain very precise and concise information about baby such as immunization, breast and bottle feeding, disease, milestones etc.......I bought this book during our first visit to Dr. Tan clinic for Vish Vish monthly check up. (1 month).....I appointed her as Vish Vish personal paed ....I really satisfied with her service....very friendly....And here I would like to say million thank to Mommy Joan Clair for her recommendation to patronize Dr. Tan services...she also Ava personal paed....love u dear....later i belanja u mkn if got the time...

FINGER SUCKING

I start to realize the first time Vish Vish inserting his finger inside his mouth during our monthly checked up....while i pulled out his clothes to weight him suddenly I saw his fingers inside his mouth...but he did not sucking it......honestly I love baby sucking their fingers....very adorable and cute...he only start sucking his fingers last two weeks (2 months 2 weeks old).....he prefer sucking his fingers than pacifier....sometimes he sucked very hard and making funny sound....eook eook....he.he..

BabyIntan's Giveaway-"Cute Baby in Costume Contest"

HERE IS LITTLE VISH VISH IN WINNIE D POOH COSTUME......

Name : Travissh Aldrich Tangai @ Vish Vish
Date of Birth : 31st July 2009
Age : Almost 3 months

This is first time i join blog contest.......previously i was interested to join mommy ryan contest but i don't have vish vish photos wearing snowcap.....i found out about babyintan's giveaway cute baby in costume contest while browsing her blog....coincidence i have a few photos of vish vish wearing winnie d pooh costume...among all photos this is my fav......dia mcm nak bertumbuk dalam gambar ni....funny.....taken when he was 1 month 2weeks old ......this costume was given as a gift by my colleagues because they know i crazy for pooh and friend ......most of vish vish stuffs are under disney brand: pooh and friend....after asking permission from daddy i straightaway make the entry...menang atau kalah belakang kira yang penting enjoy...he.he..

BabyIntan’s Giveaway ini akan berlangsung mulai

20th October 2009 – 7th November 2009 at 7 p.m.

Syarat Syarat Penyertaan ialah:

• Add blog BabyIntan dalam bloglist anda-(done)
• Sila letak banner di sidebar blog anda dengan link ke entri ini- (done)
• Buat entri mengenai contest ini di blog anda- (done)
• Only for mummy/daddy blogger yg mempunyai anak yg berumur dari 1 bulan hingga 3 tahun sahaja-(done)
• Dalam entri anda, sila upload SATU (1) SAHAJA gambar anak yg paling CUTE mengenakan costume -(done)
• Sila nyatakan nama si cutie dan umurnya sekali- (done)
• Dalam entri tersebut pastikan anda mention dan link ke BabyIntan (no link back will be disqualified) (done)
• Bila dah siap dan berpuas hati dengan gambar pilihan, sila lah tinggalkan link entri anda di entri ini - (done)

Untuk makluman, pemenang akan di pilih oleh juri dan ianya akan di bahagikan kepada 2 kategori :-

1. 3 pemenang for Baby Girls yg cute bercostume
2. 3 pemenang for Baby Boys yg cute bercostume

BABY GIRL

Oh look at them so beautiful
.....dear God please "give" me sweet beautiful baby girl

I did mention in my FB about my dream....a baby girl....blonde hair...fair skin...brown big eyes (influence by my fav disney princess Snow White and Belle)...oh i wish it will become true .......pray that my second child will be girl........hopefully my future girl will be sweet and gentle not like me a bit kasar......how wonderful see her wearing pink white dress.....I can't wait to pregnant again........call me crazy.....my vish vish just 2 months plus but i already thinking to have another baby (but our plan to have another child after vish vish 5 years.)......before we get married we even have prepared name for our future child but girl's name only because we wish to have baby girl for first child (do not misunderstood we not that choosy) girl or boy is not an issue....just that we prefer girl for the eldest.....we just can plan but the Decider is God....He gave us most precious gift cute handsome healthy smart (sorry yek to praise my own son but no harm it according to my own perspective) Little Travissh Aldrich....he completing our life...Thanks so much God....

.Since i start on this topic...so lets talk about issue on gender.....since hundered even thousand years ago gender of baby is become an issue...many races all over the world prefer Boy as compare to girl....some even willing to kill their own flesh and blood....and many women were divorce because unable to "give" baby boy to the family....I did read about story in India...parents do the scanning not for the purpose to know about their fetus health but gender....if found out the fetus is girl....they will go for ABORTION (see how cruel they are??? foolish if all girl are going to be kill human will not exist) and even if she is born she will be abandon....aduh masih ada juga ya berfikiran macam zaman jahiliyah...maybe one of the reason because of dowry...

BUNDLE OF JOY....GOD BLESS...AMEN (2)

VISH VISH OUTING TIME

Since cases on AH1N1 has been alliviate...Last saturday we went to The Spring...2nd time we brought vish vish here....first time was when he 1 month old...this time we did not bought anything...just walk around....we put him on his baby stroller....he acted like toddler...he refused to put on lying position....he will COL...he wanted in sitting position....my baby become center of attention.....some pinched...some kissed.....at first he will give weird expression then chicky smile..... (oh dear so difficult to capture ur smile...ur smile immediately gone when u saw mummy with camera)

VISH VISH STUDY TIME

His favourite books....ABC and 123....

Infants are amazing; their brains are changing at lightning speed and these positive developmental changes are enhanced through infants' interaction with their environment. During this important time, it is essential that the infant be exposed to appropriate levels of stimulation - hence the term infant stimulation. By appropriate levels of stimulation, we mean that the stimulation should not overwhelm the infant or under-engage the infant, and that the stimulation should be oriented at supporting the infant's ongoing development. Infant stimulation is especially critical for infants who are born at high risk due to biological or environmental issues, or those infants with diagnosed disabilities. Stimulation can come in many forms; one type of intervention is reading. Research has consistently supported the importance of reading to children. Reading supports both short-term developmental goals and later school performance. In fact, reading is one of the best things a parent can do for his or her child.

It is never too early to start reading; even infants who are hospitalized due to a difficult birth can benefit from reading. The following information is provided through the Baby Awareness and Support through Interactive Computer Systems (BASICS) program:

• Families should start reading early and continue to use reading within the family routine. Regular reading times can start even while the infant is in the hospital.
• Communication patterns develop very early, even before the child speaks his or her first word. Reading can support the development of good communication patterns.
• Reading has other benefits for the infant as well. Reading can give the infant practice in looking towards the parent's face and as the baby gets older, in finding the reader's voice (locating the source of sound). As the child gets older, reading continues to support vocabulary development, attentions span, following simple requests, interacting with friends and family, and much more.

BASICS gives reading tips and here are just a few:

• The parent's voice is familiar to the baby; thus reading can be a comforting family activity even in the hospital.
• Even chronically ill infants or infants with diagnosed clinical or developmental conditions benefit from reading. Listening to a story can be a soothing activity.
• Don't be afraid to read the same books over and over again to the infant; this repetition will support familiarity and recognition by the infant.
• If the family has to be away from their baby, suggest to them that they read stories into a tape recorder. Hospital staff may then play the tape over and over for the infant.

Reading should not stop with the infant's hospital discharge; reading is a fun activity that should be built into the family's regular routine.

I spend my time reading to Vish Vish at least twice a day...approximately one hour perday or even more depend on his interest..before he going to bed and when he is sleeping (sound weird.....baby can hear and store the info in his head when u reading while they are sleeping).....since I am working so that is the only time I have....(fully utilize my time with him after back from work) I have a few collection of books for Vish Vish including bedtime story...ABC...123...flash card...which I bought before and after he was born....I even start reading to him when he still in my womb....and now he attract to the pictures and colour of his book....make him smile and laugh...even he can't grab it yet but I know he enjoys....I wish it will create a habit to him...do not misunderstood...I don't have the intention to force him to become book worm.....oh I pray he can read and write as early as possible...

*******so mommies and daddies do not too calculative spending part of ur income buying books for little one...buy at least one or two a month...by one year u will see ur create mini library...investment for future success....he.he.**********

VISH VISH MASSAGE TIME

According to the experts....pead....infant massage creates relaxation through your babies whole body. It is a form of touch that will help you develop a relationship with each of your babies and will help you understand them and their individual needs better. As your new born slowly begin to uncurl from their squished up little fetal positions, massaging them will help you to stretch out their little muscles and joints and help give their movements some balance and co-ordination. It helps to prepare their bodies for movement and for relaxation. It helps to stimulate the circulatory system and can help with regulating the heart rate, breathing and your babies digestive system.

Realizing the important of infant massage I did it on Vish Vish after his bathtime and before bedtime..I start with his feets....then legs...arms....chest....tummy (I LUV U)...face and finally back...he loves the whole massage time but a bit uncomfortable when come to face and arm....probably because he cant move his arm..... I use Johnson Baby Bedtime Oil....it proven can make ur baby sleep better....while massaging I will communicate with him (singing and talking) and he will reply with his baby talk...laugh and smile....it is true massage create strong bond between mom and baby....Look at his photos below.....

Face massage Arm massage

Chest massage

Feet and leg massage

BUNDLE OF JOY....GOD BLESS...AMEN

Time flies really fast...........we declare our love 6 years ago......married almost 4 years....and now we are having our handsome little Vish Vish....finally our family is completed....after being single for 20 years......double for almost 4 years and now triple......God thanks for everything......u make my way smooth and easy....I don't ask for more....please bless my family and shower us with all ur love...

..Honestly, I can't live without my man (daddy) and my boy (Vish Vish).......they are my everything...being a wife and mom bring the best in me....changing me from hot temper to loving .......selfish to caring......arrogant to humble....stuborn to tolerance.........I am nothing without them...they are they reason I could stand...LOVE TWO OF U VERY MUCH............muaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah (million of kissess)

HEARTIEST CONGRATULATIONS

Heartiest congratulations to my dear friend, Mommy Doreen and Daddy Douglas on the birth of their beloved cute little son, Ryan Hoffman. Welcome to the world dear....another new buddy to Vish Vish....

VISH VISH 2 MONTHS

Happy 2 months old dear Vish Vish....u are getting smarter...cuter...and "spoiler".......mummy would like to say thousand sorry because have to send u to baby sit for two months before mummy resign. Its very hard decision to leave u under care of someone that mummy just know (we met her for the first time during ur baptism)..but it better than send u to nursery...

At 2 months ur head is stronger...u can raise ur head longer during tummy time and u also try to do little push up...mummy put little turtle and sometimes mirror to encourage ur strengthening activity.......and you love kicking ur fisher price bear game....

sometimes mummy can see u inserting ur thumb on ur mouth...so cute....and the moment that mummy have waiting for is ur genuine social smile...u loves smiling to mummy and daddy....u will give ur sweetest smile when we talk to u together with you baby talk....

You will cry out loud (COL) to attract our attention especially when u feel mummy and daddy is not around....it even louder if u asking for ur milk....wow our life is getting merrier and cheerful when u are smiling, cooing, squealing and gurgling....

We went for ur monthly checkup today...u are given injection....u are quite strong boy....which mummy refer to as control macho....u only cry a bit when needle inserting ur soft thigh and stop immediately when it remove...good boy...no cry cry...remember mummy always say be brave...

You begin to associate bottle with fed...u will stop cry ingthe minute u see mummy shaking ur milk bottle in front of u.....u also smile when mummy take off ur clothes...u might thought it is bath time....darling u really likes bath time....u loves splashing the water...

VISH VISH TUMMY TIME

I love to see vish vish on his tummy...really cute..everyday i will ensure he on his tummy 20 to 30 minutes.....he really try hard to raise his head...good boy...he will make a lot of expression when he saw me with the camera....when he feel tired he will cry out loud and his tears flow from the eyes to gain attention...

mummy this pose cute or not?

I am so happy on my tummy

ngha...ha.ha

he.he.he.he..

Help...I am tired...

VISH VISH RAYA (VISITING AVA)

Three of us (mommy, daddy and Vish Vish) went to Ava place on 21st September for Raya visit (ngabang)....Vish Vish looked very comfortable and in good mood when we reached there (normally when we went to people place he will look uncomfortable and moody)..he really enjoy meeting Ava.....Ava wanna play with him but he can't play yet honey...he still very small...anyway thank u Ava, Mommy Joan and Daddy Zahar for duit raya and serukan atap....

LOVE MESSAGE FROM MUMMY AND DADDY

VISH VISH PLAY TIME

wow the light and music will on when I kick the ball...now I know....

Yea...mummy...vish vish loves playing..lets play with me

Vish Vish loves playing with his fisher price bear rattle toy. "Kicking, Bobbing Gym"......as he kicks the ball bear will bob it head and music on. He also likes touch and grab 2 little crabs at right and left side. When he feel bored with little bear he will "scream" calling for mummy.... As I can see Vish Vish has potential to become football player as stricker...he can kick very hard......bijak baby mummy......

This game help our baby experience the magic of cause and effect. As kicking actions result in motion and music, baby will start to realize the power of making things hapen. Here are the developmental benefits of Kicking Bobbing Gym...so mommies and daddies don't be lokek to spend beneficial toys for ur little one...although it might expensive but worthy...

Encourages Developing Motor Skills

• Exciting rewards motivate baby to kick, reach and sit up
• Grasping and placing balls enhances eye hand coordination and fine motor skills
  

Stimulates the senses

• Friendly bear, flashing lights and colourful moving balls offer visual stimulation
• Fun music and sound stimulate auditory skills

Enhances Learning Through Discovery

• Baby's actions make things happen, teaching about cause and effect
• Encourages thinking skills as baby observes movement and anticipates surprises
  

ha this is my favourite rattle toy...

Mummy where are you...I feel bored playing alone....Eeeii Geram nyer...

Sleeping with Daddy

Daddy and vish vish tidur dengan nyenyak

Vish vish open and close one eye....pura pura tidur

Bestnye tdo ngan daddy.....

Daddy, mummy must be jealous....now I take her place...he.he..

Daddy don't hold me tightly...

VISH VISH BAPTISM

Vish Vish was baptised on 5th September at St Francis Church nearby our place......

5 WEEKS

My little vish vish is 5 weeks now..........thanks God he no longer stay up middle of nite until morning....I guess he has adapt to outside world....furthermore I have praticed him to sleep from 10pm until 7am and nap at 9am after his bath time. He getting more manja....he starts to discover his hands and feets....dah pandai menolak botol susu when feel full....makin pintar anak mummy.....he mastered in cooing...kicking....stretching...he can raise his head up longer during tummy time.

My sexy little boy

Vish Vish, this photo was taken on 5th September 2009 after we back from ur baptism......sorry honey.......this photo a bit sexy....but mummy loves it.

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HEARTIEST CONGRATULATIONS

Congrats to Daddy Willie and Mummy Loretta on the birth of their baby boy, Emerald Cole ....welcome Vish Vish new buddy....new Chelsea fan.....Cheers..

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Tummy Time

TRAVISSH TUMMY TIME

According to The American Academy of Pediatrics you can begin tummy time as soon as you bring your baby home from the hospital by playing and interacting with your baby on his or her tummy two to three times a day for short intervals. While his neck strength is still limited, he may enjoy lying on your chest so he can raise his head to see your face. As your baby becomes accustomed to the position and enjoys playing this way, and as his neck control and strength increases, you can increase the length of tummy time. By three or four months of age, your baby's neck should be strong enough for greater mobility and control.

The American Academy of Pediatrics' (AAP) 1994 recommendation that babies be put to sleep on their backs reduced the number of deaths from SIDS; however, it has also reduced the amount of time babies spend on their tummies, which can mean delays in the development of certain motor skills such as learning to push up, roll over, sit up, crawl, and pull to a stand. In addition, an average baby spends approximately 60 waking hours each week in a restrictive container such as a swing, bouncy seat or car seat, which further exacerbates these problems.

Travissh start pratice his tummy time tonite....when he is 31 days (4 weeks). I know I should start early as recommended by AAP but honestly I am not dare yet because I ever read it can cause death if baby get use to sleep on his tummy......however it is not too late to try travissh tummy time...what I did was I laid him on my chest and talked to him...It seems he enjoys his tummy time very much....he try to raise his head and look at me...his neck getting strong....

Pneumococcal Disease

DEAR MOM...PLEASE PREVENT UR LITTLE ONE FROM PNEUMOCOCCAL DISEASE

I plan to get pneumococcal jap for Travissh when he 2 months old......I did a few research such as browse through internet, discussion with other mom (Mommy Joan Clair and Mommy Christina Henry), read Mommy Stephanie Liah post under topic Pneumococcal and Rotavirus in her blog www.ryanraffael.blogspot.com........if possible it is a COMPULSORY for our baby to take this injection...prevention is better than cure rite......no matter how much it costs..expensive or cheap...but it is not an issue....yg penting our baby sihat...

Here is some of the info on pneumoccoccal disease i found on the net....

According to the World Health Organization's current estimates, one child dies of a pneumococcal disease every minute. Pneumococcal infection can cause ear infection, sinus infection, pneumonia, blood infection (bacteremia), and meningitis (infection of the covering of the brain). About 1 out of every 20 people who get pneumococcal pneumonia dies from it, as do about 2 out of every 10 who get bacteremia, and 3 out of 10 who get meningitis. Pneumococcal disease kills more people in the United States every year than all other vaccine-preventable diseases combined.

What is pneumococcal disease?

Pneumococcal disease is a severe bacterial infection caused by Streptococcus pneumoniae, also called pneumococcus. It may cause pneumonia, meningitis or a blood stream infection (bacteremia).

Who gets pneumococcal disease?

Although anyone can get pneumococcal disease, it occurs more frequently in infants, young children, African Americans, some Native American populations, the elderly or in people with serious underlying medical conditions such as chronic lung, heart or kidney disease. Others at risk include alcoholics, diabetics, people with weakened immune systems and those without a spleen.

How is the disease transmitted?

The pneumococcus is spread by airborne or direct exposure to respiratory droplets from a person who is infected or carrying the bacteria?

When does pneumococcal disease occur?

Infections occur most often during the winter and early spring when respiratory illnesses are more common.

How soon after exposure do symptoms occur?

The incubation period may vary but it is generally one to three days.

What are the symptoms?

Symptoms generally include an abrupt onset of fever and shaking or chills. Other common symptoms may include headache, cough, chest pain, disorientation, shortness of breath, weakness and occasionally a stiff neck.

How is pneumococcal disease diagnosed?

Doctors are able to diagnose pneumococcal disease based on the type of symptoms exhibited by the patient and specific laboratory cultures of sputum, blood or spinal fluid.

How is it treated?

Prompt treatment with antibiotics, such as penicillin or cephalosporin, is usually effective. However, penicillin-resistant strains of pneumococcus are increasingly being reported throughout the United States.

Is there a vaccine to prevent infection?

Yes. There are two types of vaccines currently in use, one of which is approved for children less than two years of age. Both vaccines are safe and reduce disease occurrence. Pneumococcal conjugate vaccine is recommended for all children less than 24 months old and for children between 24 and 59 months old who are at high risk of disease. Older children and adults with risk factors may receive the pneumococcal polysaccaride vaccine. Patients in high-risk categories should ask their health care provider or local health department about pneumococcal vaccine.

4 WEEKS

BABY TRAVISSH 4 WEEKS....

Time flies very fast......our little Travissh is 4 weeks now......he getting active and naughty.....he makes a lot of movement (kicking, cooing, stretching etc) and becoming more interactive making throaty noise that amuse me and his dad......he also seems understand my words....whenever he crying I talk to him and he will stop for a while...He also makes a lot of startle reflex...whereby he will extend both arms out sideways with palms up and thumbs flexed.He will then quickly bring both arms back together and cry. Look funny...hero mummy pun makin manja pandai minta cuddle.....


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Sleeping Time

TRAVISSH SLEEPING TIME

I always wonder whether any mom out there in the same situation with me.....our little Travissh sleeping from 7.00am until 6.00pm...he just wake up when he feel hungry or time to change his diaper..even bath time i have to wake him up...he continue his sleep at 7.00pm until midnight.....Around 12.30 or 1am he wake up and didn't sleep until morning......our sleeping pattern is changing because of this......

Bath Time

TRAVISSH BATH TIME

Travissh takes bath twice a day...morning and evening....he really enjoys his bath time.......I can't bath him in his tub...still scared.....wait until he one month plus...so I just use his changing mat...He use carrie junior groovy grapberry (i bought this because of it nice smell...smell of jelly) ....but i plan to change to Johnson Baby Milk Bath next month.....